in-person and virtual

Sex Therapy

for Sex/Porn Addiction, ED/Orgasm Difficulties, LGBTQIA+, and Polyamorous/Open Relationship Lifestyle

Who Needs Sex Therapy?

If you are an adult (18+) who has had sex, is having sex, or thinking about having sex then YOU need sex therapy!

Sex isn’t about inserting Tab A into Slot B or C or even D, it’s about understanding your needs, wants, desires, and being able to truthfully communicate those needs, wants, and desires to your partner(s). Sexual exploration is about physical, mental, emotional, and sometimes an almost spiritual intimate experience. Sex is a natural part of who we are. It is a healthy enjoyable way to improve your physical, mental, and emotional well-being if it is done with respect for self and partner(s). Let’s talk about how you can improve your sexual well-being!

“When it comes to sex, the most important six inches are between the ears!”

- Dr. Ruth Westheimer

FAQs

  • I'm In-Network with Aetna, Cigna, United Health, Optum, Blue Cross Blue Shield of Massachusettes, Compsych, and Lyra AND NOW IN NETWORK WITH Blue Cross Blue Shield of Texas!

  •  $75 for 30 minute session

    $150 for 50-60 minute session

    $300 for 90 minute Couples Session

  • I offer both in-person and virtual sessions.

  • Office Hours

    Monday through Thursday 10am - 5pm

    Closed Most Holidays

    Appointments For Anytime outside of normal hours must be agreed upon and are for Out-of- Pocket clients only at the rate of $150 per 60 minute session.

  1. How do I know I have a problem with porn and/or sex addiction?

If you are using porn and or sex to fulfill an emotional need, because you are bored, or you just need to escape your daily life then you may have a problem. Those behaviors can lead you to a behavioral addiction that may interfere with your relationships, occupation, and enjoyment of life.

2. When should I seek help for my ED orgasm problem?

First you need to see a doctor to be tested for any physical issues that may be the cause of your ED/Orgasm difficulty. If not physical problem can be determined then it is likely that your problem is psychological or emotional.

Anxiety, worries about performance, past traumas, and self-conscious feelings can inhibit you from being fully aware of your pleasure and inhibit your ability to enjoy sex.

3. How do I understand my true self?

If you are questioning your sexual identity, gender identity, or sexual preferences, then therapy can help you. Being in relationships, dealing with social stigmas, and fear of rejection can hold you back from being true to yourself.

4. Is opening our relationship the right step for me and my partner?

Choosing to include others in your relationship can lead to joy, but sometimes it can also inadvertently create problems in your primary relationship. The most successful open relationships are based on honesty, love ,and trust. All partners is the relationship need to be agreeable to the terms and boundaries when including others in their relationships.

5. Do my partner and I need therapy or is this just a phase we are going through?

When that feeling of “connectedness” just doesn’t seem to be there anymore, even though the love is still there., it may be time to talk to someone. Therapy can help you express your needs in a safe environment and spark ideas to relight the flames.

Steps of Therapy

step one

Consultation

In a 15-20 minute prearranged phone call, I will ask you for a brief explanation of why you are seeking therapeutic services. If we are comfortable talking to each other, an appointment time and payment methods are discussed. I will need your email address, full name, credit card and/or insurance information.I will need to send you the preliminary paperwork for you to fill out and return to me, prior to our first appointment.

step two

Initial Appointment

During our first appointment we will get into more in-depth discussion of you problem/issues/concers and I will then using that information and the information that you provided me in your paperwork, I will be able to develop a plan to help you reach you goals.

step three

Ongoing Therapy

Further exploration of your problems/issues/concerns will occur, discussion of homework assignments that I feel will help you and the progress that you have made with your goals.

Sometimes 2 or 3 sessions is enough and other times it may require as many as 12 sessions depending on the issue.

helping you to find all your

intimate possibilities